@lunarkittens, it just sucks cause i dont feel like i make him happy anymore cause i cant do everything he likes to do anymore. Like he likes to go shooting but i cant
Yeah, it sucks when you can't share certain hobbies/activities anymore. It may seem a bit counterintuitive (since we hear so much about spoiling pregnant women) but maybe try cheering him up by spoiling him one night? Maybe whip up a nice dinner/dessert and do something nice for him - a massage, for instance. Its easier to spoil him physically while you still have a smaller belly (I assume you're early in pregnancy anyway?)! You may not be able to do the same stuff as before, but just remind him that you can still have a nice time together, it doesn't have to all be about the baby :)
@lunarkittens, im 33 weeks along ill be 34 tomorrow we found out i was pregnant when i was 16 weeks along when i had to go to er for stomach pains and throwing up blood but it just seems recently that hes not happy he just may be nervous
Joanne·
It takes men a while to get used to the idea of having a baby. Just give him time. :)
Anna David·
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@lunarkittens, it just sucks cause i dont feel like i make him happy anymore cause i cant do everything he likes to do anymore. Like he likes to go shooting but i cant
Brianna saultz·
my child's father was the same way. I think he was just afraid. but now things have gotten a lot better
Brianna saultz·
just give it time And communicate
Joanne·
Yeah, it sucks when you can't share certain hobbies/activities anymore. It may seem a bit counterintuitive (since we hear so much about spoiling pregnant women) but maybe try cheering him up by spoiling him one night? Maybe whip up a nice dinner/dessert and do something nice for him - a massage, for instance. Its easier to spoil him physically while you still have a smaller belly (I assume you're early in pregnancy anyway?)! You may not be able to do the same stuff as before, but just remind him that you can still have a nice time together, it doesn't have to all be about the baby :)
Anna David·
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@lunarkittens, im 33 weeks along ill be 34 tomorrow we found out i was pregnant when i was 16 weeks along when i had to go to er for stomach pains and throwing up blood but it just seems recently that hes not happy he just may be nervous