thanks everyone

I only waited 3 weeks with my first

Yes you should. Even if you feel fine there may still be internal damage that needs more time to heal. And you can cause an infection if there is still healing that needs done and you introduce bacteria

Lol I posted this couple days ago, still yet to have sex lol

Yes definitely fertile time lol I conceived when my daughter was 8wks new lol.. I usually wait 4-6wks

you don't havvvvveeee too lol . are you perfectly healed? and I would wear protection or it is very easy to get pregnant again. 😉