Me and hubby had sex today after a really long time. Is it normal to be in so much pain??? I was…

Oh yes !!! It's gets like that now I was in so much pain the other day

thought I was the only one I dislike pain so I kinda don't like having sex I only do it for my boyfriend but it's very painful

@luvbug07072016, thats the only reason why i did it, i wish he could take care of his needs in the shower I honestly wouldn't mind, but i told him no more

yea I understand that we probably have sex once every 2 or 3 weeks he be mad but he will get over it

@luvbug07072016, its been longer for us he has been really comprehensive about it especially since its his first and were high risk but he had been trying for a week so i just went for it i was starting to feel bad for him.

understand that but I tell my boyfriend all the time I'm hi risk also and if I hurt to much that's it i be like it's not just me I'm thinking about

Well, I have a cerclage in and it's been 14 weeks plus.

I have a cerclaus as well@knfletcher42

@angelbaby111, are you on bed rest? With my older girls (ages 12 & 13) I was on complete bed rest but now, none. I work every day. So maybe that's why I'm feeling all the discomfort n plus I'm old, lol!

@knfletcher42, no not on bed rest. I was towards the end of my pregnancy with my last one though.

@knfletcher42, I definitely feel a big difference being in my 3 0's with this baby verse my 20's with my last 4. I have every ache and pain you could possibly get

Ha ha ha! Me too! I know I sound like a complainer to my poor hubby but it's just that EVERYTHING hurt! Lol