Can't stand my husband's family after they shared my private texts

I seriously can't stand my husband's family. Okay well its only 3 people but they makes me so angry. When someone texts you in private you do not go and put that text and Facebook or send it to all your family acting like you are so hurt. You said such horrible nasty things about my husband, my BABY girl, my family, and then me. You get no sympathy and you don't get to be butt hurt because I won't let you step foot in my house. Grow up.