Me and Joe (the baby's father) have known each other for about 8 years. We have never dated, every…

my advice would be to talk to him about it and say just about what u said in this post bc this post is honest! good luck on whatever choice you make :)

I've been wanting to so bad, but I'm afraid it'll make things awkward and that it will not be what he's thinking. Lol. He's told me that he has also thought about it but he won't tell me either. @mommyof1hopingfor2

@britt16,

sounds to me like he's thinking the same thing you are about the feeling not being mutual. I say do it if you don't you'll think about it and possibly regret it ya know. especially with him being the father.

I asked him about it again and the only thing he said is that he thinks it happened to give his life meaning and slow him down because he wasn't goin down a very good path before it happened. @mommyof1hopingfor2

You should just tell him how you feel it could be awkward and rejection hurts but it's worth a shot my husband and I started off as best friends in high school he had just got out of serious relationship and didn't want to pursue me but I said lets just try it and we promised we would let the other know if it didn't feel right well its 8yrs later and he Thanks me all the time for asking him we've got a2yr old and been married 5 months and TTC #2

I did tell him, he didn't really say much though after I told him... He has been single almost two years now, but him and his ex was together almost 3 years and that was his first true love. He has told me before that he doesn't want another relationship right now and that he's afraid that I'll break his heart, but there has been two times that he has told me he loved me, each time we were being playful and doin silly pranks to each other but he says he was just in the moment when he said it and that I'd never hear him say it again. It's tuff and I don't know what to really do. He wants me to live with him, but says were nothing. @mommyof1hopingfor2

That does sound like such a hard situation and I would be going nuts myself. i can understand why it's bothersome to you. Maybe as your pregnancy goes on and yall see each other more bc like doc appts and such if he wants to be apart of that then his mind may change. All you can do is hope for the best and I myself am a firm believer in "what happens is meant to happen" so this scenario your in now could be putting together something else. As for the living with each other thing I had a friend who did that with her babys father and she had feelings like you and so did he (the guy is my husband's cousin) but he wouldn't admit it bc he was scared exact words to mt hubby and now they're together have been for years. maybe just maybe things could change you shouldn't worry yourself though bc u have to worry about you and the baby now :) I hope this may have helped you in some way :)

Thank you so much! I've been trying not to worry or anything I'll just go withy he flow and see how things play out. @mommyof1hopingfor2

sounds like a good idea to me. and ur welcome anytime!