Idk if it the mood swings or not but tomorrow is my doctors appointment and I decided that I wanna go by myself and not allow my fiance to go, I actually don't want him to come to any with me nor do I want him to be in the delivery room, I just feel like I started this by myself so I want to finish by myself not only that I'm tired of putting my faith in him just so he can let me down so I just feel like if I cut him out of this pregnancy then I won't expect anything of him...if that makes sense.
we have a 5 year old, he's a really great father so I would never want to take his children away from him, but counseling doesn't sound so bad @nyckolle00
I would definitely figure that out before the baby gets here and start the process of either getting custody or having a parenting plan.... I suggest counseling
that why said custody or parenting plan cause I didn't know the situation and didn't know if you had other kids. but that's good! then if anything I would try counseling if possible if you think it's something you can fix and if not you guys can do a parenting plan and all that. I hope everything gets worked out and gets better for you.