I don't think my boyfriend realizes how hard it is for me to watch his daughter at this point in my pregnancy... Idk how…

That's too much

@kn102 I know moms do it all the time, having multiple kids at a time, but it comes more naturally when it's your own child. I love his daughter but it's just not something I was expecting to deal with..😔

I had 4 daughter by the time I turned 21 and they never got on my nerves but if you added 1 more I would have gone nuts. You need your time to relax before you have your baby not babysit someone else's. I'm sorry if that's mean but if you don't speak up you'll be babysitting once you get home from the hospital.

I have a 4 yr old, a soon to be 1 yr old and I'm 4 month pregnant

@kn102 wow kudos to you, thats incredible that you managed that at 21. I know I need to speak up about it but I'm gonna get the "one of us needs to be working" speech. ugh I needa grow a pair and just bring it up.

I'm not trying to sound rude and j say this in the best possible way.. You weren't expecting to deal with it ? That child will be your step child if you decided to Mary the father of you soon to be baby. It doesn't come naturally it's something you learn to control and love, I have a step son, and although it's hard you have to suck it up , you signed up for it when you decided to lay in bed with the little ones father . Just saying ...

@lovinggunnar those weren't the proper words to use on my part, I just didn't think I'd be 39 weeks pregnant and having a toddler 4-5 days a week on my own. I have to learn to be a mom to her as I prepare to be a mom to one of my own for the 1st time. its a bit overwhelming.

It is, it's very overwhelming. Your having good practice. If you can learn to have patience with a child that is not biological yours.. You can have patience with your child.