perfectly fine! I didnt have one with my first two and now im 36 weeks with my third so im planning my own since no one was planning on doing one for me.
I just threw my own this weekend! a friend did help me a lot, because I don't live near my family so I had to plan from afar and I had to fly to get here. that's also why it was so early. you should just pick the date your self and ask her to help you plan it then lol.
thats the issue im haveing now the girl who wants to throw it wants to throw it like 2 days befor my due date and under some circumstance woth my husband being millitary we might have to move back home right after i have the baby