maybe just have him slow down or keep changing positions, if my boyfriend was really trying too it could be over in like 3 min cause he uses the whole tight excuse too, he just has to go a little, slow down, even stop and do some other stuff to me and then pick back up when he's not so close. Lol we've made it last up to an hour this way.

my husband is my first been like that for 5 yrs so yeah 😊