We have been married for 16 years, and have 2 kids already, 13 & 9. He has always been a binge drinker, and I have always had hopes when he says he is going to stop. By now I know it is just empty promises, and I am losing hope and respect for him. 2-3 times a week, he comes home 2 hours late because he goes to the bar. It hurts my feelings that he wants to spend so much time there instead of coming home to the family. He is very buzzed when he comes home, and continues to drink until he is wasted. He does little things to start arguments with me and the kids and we all get so annoyed. Lately it is making me so sad because I don't get any positive attention from him, and I feel like I am on my own with the kids I have, and will be on my own with the baby on the way. I just wish he would change his ways and that things could be different.😓. Thanks for listening.
We have been married for 16 years, and have 2 kids already, 13 & 9. He has always been a binge drinker, and I have always had hopes when he says he is going to stop. By now I know it is just empty promises, and I am losing hope and respect for him. 2-3 times a week, he comes home 2 hours late because he goes to the bar. It hurts my feelings that he wants to spend so much time there instead of coming home to the family. He is very buzzed when he comes home, and continues to drink until he is wasted. He does little things to start arguments with me and the kids and we all get so annoyed. Lately it is making me so sad because I don't get any positive attention from him, and I feel like I am on my own with the kids I have, and will be on my own with the baby on the way. I just wish he would change his ways and that things could be different.😓. Thanks for listening.