This may be tmi but it has been hurting for me to have sex and i try to explain to my SO that it…

me too. I was crying last night... it was hurting so much. be on top n stay up there? that's my solution lately

@zombiemombie, it hurts to even be on top any way hurts.. But probably doesnt help anything that he decided to tell me the other night that its hard for him to get off cause of my stomach cause he doesnt like big girls.. Its like thanks that makes me feel so much better when im self conscious enough

you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. you're pregnant. not fat. my boyfriend is the same way and he said that himself. ^

Does it feel kinda like pressure? Like air being pumped into you and your tummy is going to explode? That's how it feels for me it hurts way too much @cumminsbaby_98

@rameaa, its more like pressure and alot of it and @zombiemombie i did and he was like it's just the thought of you being big and you might not lose the weight. But its like you shouldnt have gotten me pregnant with your child then

@cumminsbaby_98, if you & I were best friends & I heard your boyfriend say that I'd be getting in his face for you. "HELLO SIR. You are the person who got her pregnant. She is CARRYING your CHILD inside of her, allowing her body to be destroyed from the inside out, allowing all of the awful symptoms like morning sickness, back pain, pain in general, bleeding of any kind, hemorrhoids, headaches, vomiting, sciatica, & an overdose of hormones to take control of her body for 10 months. You 'don't like' big girls?? You're 'afraid' she won't lose the weight after?! What about her?? You don't think she could possibly be afraid of pushing a watermelon through her you know what?! You don't think she's afraid of all the pain she's going to go through for your ungrateful ass? So when you begin gaining weight after baby is here are you going to throw a fit when she puts it back in your face 'I don't like bigger dudes'? You're about to be a father. Picture some other guy telling your future daughter the same BS you're saying to her mother right now. Man up!"

.....but that's just me. I'm sorry you gotta deal with that.

@seeyore, if only he could read this... Lol

@amandafikes, lol. I don't think he'd like me too much.