! VENT! Ok so my mom is in prison and she has done some shady stuff to make me not wanna talk to her…
! VENT! Ok so my mom is in prison and she has done some shady stuff to make me not wanna talk to her for a while mind u I am on my 2nd baby she was there for me with my daughter and has missed almost 3 birthdays of hers I won't go into details about her lock up but my dad thinks that I should forgive her for what she has done bc she has served her time I don't think my mom has changed in the past 3 years to even forgive her for half the stuff she has done to me she has taken money from me and my husband said $500 that he gave her when he first moved down her was a gift for her bc she got a new bed my mom is crazy so then she tells us we owe her $2000 for rent we didn't owe her anything my mom started doing drugs and then I got pregnant with my daughter I was 17 almost 18 weeks pregnant when she decided to choke me I don't want my kids to have the life I did my dad was a truck driver gone for weeks at a time and my mom would leave me home alone at 6 years old and I had to take care of my siblings so she could go cheat on my dad I know u may think I'm lying but I'm not I was 6 when my mom left me home I grew up way to fast didn't have time for friends I believe when we got taken from my parents was one of the best things that could have happened to us that's just part of my story I just want my kids to have a better life then I did growing up and my mom wants me to stay in ohio so she can see the kids all the time my husband moved down here 4 years ago almost 5 years in march and he barley gets to see his family so I made the decision to move to Michigan and to be with ppl who love and care for me and my kids as much as I wished I had growing up its not stressful it's a calm environment and it's what I need for once so I'm going to see my mom today and she will try her hardest to make me stay but I've started my new journey into a new life she will be apart of it but only at times I think is necessary I love my family my dad means more to me then anything in the world but I need to get out of here its just a must thanks u all for letting me vent I know it's long thanks again tho
jessica·
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I think that's extremely strong of you and in your kids best interest! it sounds like even if you face any manipulation you won't have it and that to me says you're so ready for what you're doing and nothing will stop you! 😎hats off to you!! ✌👏
Kara Nelson·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)
@jashmen thanks
Stephanie Valentine·
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if you don't believe she has changed, don't forgive her. my dad ditched me when I was 12 years old.. tried to come back in my life when he found out a was pregnant with a boy. he will NEVER BE in my son's life and I do not regret it one bit
Kara Nelson·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)
@stephnagy2 I want my kids to choose weather or not they want her in their life let them see what I seen but I don't wanna put them through that
Stephanie Valentine·
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I wouldn't. my father wasn't a nice man and I'd never put my kids through that either.
jjordan86·
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I know all too well what you are going through
you have to forgive so you can have peace. it doesn't mean you have to trust or deal with her but forgiveness is required if you are going to move on in life. sometimes we get stuck in the past and can't move forward because we hold on to the pain and anger of what someone did to us. Forgiveness sets you free @mom47172
Kara Nelson·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)
@jjordan86 I understand that I just need time to myself to think and being a drive away like literally 2 hours does not do me good right now I need to be further away it's just to stressful where I'm at right now