okay so I need some opinions, I told my fiance that I was going to go to my moms house because his…

That's rude as mess

I love him so much :( Idk what I should do! I feel like he's just giving up on us...@lil_bigmama,

it really sounds like it I hate 2 say it girl bc ik it hurts but u have 2 do what is best for u & ur family it's better 2 find out his like this b4 yall get married or have kids uk

leave his ass and I bet he'll be calling u non stop.he's an asshole ur pregnant n don't deserve that crap.

I couldn't marry someone that makes threats like that, saying he would be better without you... That is not fair and it is emotional abuse for sure. It is not okay to make threats like that in a relationship, whether you are mad or not. No excuse.

People that say stuff like that, don't change.

@tlokitabella91, I'm not pregnant yet but we've been trying...

@lil_bigmama, I know am I really really love him and I don't want to lose him but this is the third time that we've been letting them stay with us they have the three year old and a baby on the way and I mean we have the room for it but its just drama and I don't want to deal with it we've had so many arguments in the past and I feel like it's just going to keep happening

@babymay2016, he never used to be like this either that's the thing

That's crazy girl

I just don't know what to do...he never use to be like this...

Never let someone show you who they really are more than one time. He just told you what you should do and basically how he has been feeling all along. Don't make excuses (not saying that you are) for him. He said what he said as plain as day. Don't try to read around it but read it for what it is. It's time to go girl.

@sexxymama83, it's so hard because I love him very much...I've never loved another man like I do him...

Well people really do show their true colors... It really sucks to be that close to someone for so long and then you see them for how they truly are. But you just have to ask yourself if you are willing to put up with the way he is being right now, for the rest of your life. People don't change, no matter how much we want them too. I would honestly be happy that I didn't have children with him or marry him yet, because the way he is being is not going to change over time, and if he treats you this way now, he isn't going to stop for baby either. My baby daddy and I were best friends for three years, we lived together, seemingly had the perfect relationship... and now he can't even look at me, and I'm carrying his child. He tells me how awful I am and hormonal and yells at me. He doesn't understand that is not normal behavior and I realize that guys don't feel the pain we do, but he does not even TRY to understand or treat me nicely for the sake of not hurting our baby. My boyfriend would never even DREAM of treating me how he does, and I'm sure he thinks I'm crazy too, but is always kind to me.

Yes and time will heal that. But love don't mean nothing if it's one sided. I know it'll be hard. But he basically just disrespected you and your baby and could careless if you stayed or went. Is that the type of love you really want....... Love can be a lot of things but it should never hurt that way. If you don't stand up for yourself who will?

My brother in law lived with us, and i hated every second of it. Its just hard when you have extra people around. Im totally on your side. This is a very tuff call. But i definitely would be trying to talk him out of it! Do they have any other place to go

My brother in law lived with us, and i hated every second of it. Its just hard when you have extra people around. Im totally on your side. This is a very tuff call. But i definitely would be trying to talk him out of it! Do they have any other place to go

I love my baby daddy and he was my best friend, but for the sake of my son I have had to totally cut him off. I wish for nobody else to go through that... I thought he would change, but they DONT change. I am definitely not willing to put up with that the rest of my life, and I feel guilty every day for giving my son a father like that, even though my boyfriend is going to treat him like a Prince. But some day my baby daddy is gonna break my sons heart just like he did mine, and that KILLS me.

@babymay2016, when we first got together we were inseparable we were always together whether it be going out somewhere or just hanging out at his moms house we've been through so much together in the past 5 years last year we lost an apartment and had to live in a hotel and now we have our own townhome and we just got a car, he works non stop so I think he's just stressed out because he never used to be like this and I think with his new schedule. He is getting it'll be better I hope

@_mommyoftwo_, it's not that I don't like them living here I mean I don't mind helping them out because they have nowhere else to go and it's my nephew and my unborn niece involved so I don't mind helping them out but its just the fact that her husband doesn't know how to hold a job and she doesn't work because she's a stay at home mom so we end up buying pull ups and everything for our nephew and it's just putting a strain on our finances, I want to save up money to have our own baby one day not to support somebody else's

@sexxymama83, I know what he said was harsh but I just think he's just stressed out from work and all all the time he works 7 12 hour days he barely gets any time off but his schedule is changing starting the 24th so hopefully everything will get better, I'm not going to give up on us because I do love him so much

I say put your differences aside. But before anything talk to your fiancé because he owes you a good apology, and just let him know why it's a big deal get him to see eye to eye with you. Once that's done, As soon as she gets there go out to lunch with her or grab some Starbucks whatever any place but the house and let her know your doing her a favor it's not the other way around. Let her know the only way this is going to work is if you both put everything behind yourselves and become a team. And if either one of you have a problem with one another don't go running to your spouse bring it to one another and work it out like adults. Best of Luck sweetie.