Myth: Newborns don't really need their fathers The intense connection between your partner and your…

Myth: Newborns don't really need their fathers

The intense connection between your partner and your new baby can leave you wondering whether your baby really needs you. You may feel especially shut out if your partner is breastfeeding your baby. Rest assured, you are an essential part of your newborn’s life. Being with you is comforting and soothing to him.

To bond with your baby, hold, rock, and chat to him. Wait until after a feed, though, so you'll have his full attention. Taking over after a feed also gives your partner a chance to recoup her energy after breastfeeding.

You can help to feed your baby if your partnerexpresses milk into a bottle, or if you decide you want to go with formula feeding. And you can help your baby indirectly by doing chores around the house. This will allow your partner more relaxed time with your baby. Remember, you make a difference to your whole family.  #sweethartparentssaturday