oh boy... idk what to do... let me start by saying I love my bf very much and I know he loves me but…
oh boy... idk what to do...
let me start by saying I love my bf very much and I know he loves me but things are just getting so tough recently and I don't know what else to do.... im thinking of ending things with my bf or taking a break till he gets back to Miami from college.... he just flip flops so much one moment he is sweet and there for me the next he doesnt call to say good night or ask how our son is doing and its really getting to me. I have been a wreak all day because today was the day they laid my best friend to rest and I couldnt go.. they have me on bed rest and I can't even walk. I have been crying all day because I couldnt even say good bye to her but has my bf asked to see if im ok... no of course not he has been too busy eating shit with his friends... so I call him and we get into a fight because im calling him out on his shit and he is like being all quite then blows up and is like how the hell can you think I dont care about you guys... blah blah blah. all this pain and hurt isnt good for my right now nor the baby... idk to just tough it out for the next 3 weeks or just go on a break and see if he truly understands hat he is loosing the more be pushes us away if he means to or not that's what he is doing... help.
Lucinda·
@may4jessie, It's really hard to try to give you advice on what to do about your situation. It's really up to you on what would be best for you and your baby. Have you talked to him about how you've been feeling?
jessika marie·
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I have and he feels bad but the distance is what the problem is for him he doesnt know how to show affection from far thats always been his problem. its just so much harder now that I am pregnant and have dealt with the whole pregnancy alone other than the weekends he comes down on the holidays. I still have 3 weeks of being alone.... @butterflydrm2
Lucinda·
: ( yea, doesn't sound like a good situation, but I am sure you guys can make it work. He just needs to put in a little more effort and have a little more consideration on your feels. I hope it all works out for you whatever you decide on doing. *hugs* @may4jessie
jessika marie·
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thank you I really hope it works out... I dont want to be a single mom I know I wont be strong enough to do it on my own. @butterflydrm2
Lucinda·
@may4jessie, Try not to stress out too much about it. If you guys really love each other than you guys will figure it out. It may not be exactly when you want it to happen. Consider this a little bump on the road.