Idk why but today I felt like cryjng. at first I was thinking about how my life changed because of…
Idk why but today I felt like cryjng. at first I was thinking about how my life changed because of my baby and I started to cry but I know that it was because of happiness. .. now every time I go to the kitchen ... (I live with my sister,brother, and mom) my family just loves to remind me how I still have a belly after giving birth. they always have something to say about it like omg you're so swollen, I wasn't like that, you look like you have another baby in there, and suck in your stomach you look like you're still pregnant. .. I can't even look at myself in the mirror anymore because it just makes me sad. I don't regret having my baby not for a second but it's going to take some time for me to look at myself the same. but instead of just supporting me they make me feel like shit. What if I was having PPD? ( which I am not ) I just hate them so much right now. funny thing is they're all fat there is not one of them who is skinnier than I am even now!
Samie Thomas·
Мама дочки-младенца
girl you are BEAUTIFUL. and damnit you just housed A FUCKING HUMAN BEING. try not to let them get to you. you are better than that. 😘 (to them: 👊👊✌)
jeasie bell·
Мама дочки-младенца
thank you, I needed something positive to be said. .. 🌼 @_akgirl
Samie Thomas·
Мама дочки-младенца
you're welcome love
Arista·
Мама двоих (младенец)
ok...so I'm gonna be blunt here because I must have the same family...my grandmom always thought I was pregnant again...the next time they insult you, smile and say thank you. "thank you for the compliment. I know I look good for JUST having a baby! " fire back with them. make them see that they will not win. you are gorgeous and you JUST had a baby. 2 days after I gave birth a stranger thought I was pregnant. I didn't care because I knew I gave life to the little man that was in the hospital next to me...show them how proud you are and nothing can tear you down. do not let them win. be proud because you earned your God damned stripes mama. :)
jeasie bell·
Мама дочки-младенца
Aww thank you so much girl. it makes me laugh now that I think of it because they criticize me so much yet they're all over weight @frozenessence .
Arista·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@jeasie, you're very welcome momma :) and good! the more you show them it doesn't faze you, they will eventually see it and stop :)