Lets talk about frustration. So me and my finace were told no more sex at 20 weeks because I would…
Lets talk about frustration. So me and my finace were told no more sex at 20 weeks because I would bleed every time. Fine I can handle that. Well my son is now 3 months and we have only had sex 2 times since 20 weeks pregnant 2 TIMES!!! I get it, we couldn't until the baby came, then I refused (he didn't try anyway) until I got on birth control at 6 weeks ( huge believer that if you dont want anymore kids right away, keep your legs closed, use a condom, or get on birth control!) So I kept my legs shut, doc told me wait 2 weeks after BC to do anything, it took him 4 weeks, but seriously COME ON!!! No excuse now, baby is 3 months where has our sex lig gone?!
xoxo512070·
Мама двоих (младенец)
sex life*
Tiffany·
Мама троих детей
I was told the same thing, except my issue ended up correcting itself. but my s.o. then refused sex because he didn't want to hurt the baby, and now we have to wait till the bleeding passes to do anything :/
xoxo512070·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@qmama, right! it sucks and I wanted to try again despite what the doctor said but my fiance was also scared and I respected that, hes only human so I never forced anything but now its a little ridiculous!
Paulette·
Мама сына (1 год)
it happend to me, it sucks I don't know where my sex life went after we had our baby
xoxo512070·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@isaacjmommy, its horrible, and I dont know about you but it sure makes me feel unattractive now, like he just doesn't look at me the same anymore
Paulette·
Мама сына (1 год)
yes it happend to me and for me I think it was a Lil bit worse my husband is a truck driver so I see him once a month and when he came home there was nothing there, I cried a lot until one day I decided to talk to him , bought myself a bunch on baby dolls, got highlights done , painted my lips red everyone we went out and acted not interested and then it just happend he changed when he saw that I was taking care of me and not wanting him and even if he doesn't touch me at night and get all dolled up to go to sleep so if he doesn't make me feel attractive I'll make myself feel attractive @xoxo512070