So my son won't ever stop crying and I thought he was colic so I changed his formula and got gripe…

breast milk, even if from a donor.

thanks ill see What I can do

Give him a bath, and wrap him pretty tight, give him a bottle, and sing to him, or put on some lullaby music from YouTube. then while your singing and rocking him, pat his back like how a heartbeat would sound. He's spent 99% of his entire existence inside your belly.

that's the only time I can get him to stop crying is if I do that but I can't do it all the time.

I think my son has colic as well. some days are better than others. he usually only cries in the evenings and not much will calm him down. It's hard, but it will end soon enough. I've learned all you can do is stay calm, be patient, and try not to get frustrated. good luck!

also, white noise helps my son! the times that I can't calm him down, I'll take him into the bathroom and turn the bath on. listening to the water always calms him down.

I used colic calm and white noise, if she didn't want the white noise I turned on the song silent night and she loved it.. she was SUPER colicky

@samanthacross218, what is colic calm?

it's gripe water but it's black. it has different types of things that can help with like teething, stomach cramps. things like that. I don't have it on hand anymore otherwise I would post a picture for you. but my daughter would scream until she turned purple and couldnt breathe I tried different formulas and that didn't work tried gas x and a few other medicines and NOTHING helped.. I thought I was doing something wrong.. then a nurse told me to use colic calm and it did amazing things.. @jgled000

thank you!