This will be my 4th child! I'm pretty excited about it. I can't tell all my family because I think they will be disappointed. I have only told a few. what do y'all think I should do? I was gonna wait until I'm showing. I also have a hernia in my belly button sine I had my second child. I don't know if I wanna use the same doctor cause I told her I had one and she said it would go away but it has been 4 years since then. What should I do?