so over my dad acting like a little kid he came home and started taking stuff out for Alfredo I was…

so over my dad acting like a little kid he came home and started taking stuff out for Alfredo I was like okay cool what else do u need and he told me to get the tuna and I just gave him a questionable face like 😮? never heard of tuna Alfredo so I asked him why he was putting tuna in it and he went off and just started putting everything up then went out side and called his boyfriend and talked shot about me like I was being all rude with him and all I said was "why are we putting tuna in it" never raised my voice or anything so then I go out side and said "grow up if u r going to talk sh*t about me say it in front of me" then he said he wasn't talking sh*t and then said so now I have to grow up huh and with his boyfriend on the phone he asked him who's the one that needs to grow up and I was like look of u wanted tuna and something simple we can make tuna sandwiches so then he said well I'm tired and have had a long day and I cut him off and just walked inside and started making the tuna then when his boyfriend came home they went up stairs so I got the tuna done and went up to get then to eat and my dad was like I'm not hungry and his boyfriend said I'm just going to eat cereal so now my question is is who's the one acting like kids here me or them