***RANT*** I have been raising my bonus child (boyfriends son) since he was 1 years old. His birth…

***RANT***

I have been raising my bonus child (boyfriends son) since he was 1 years old. His birth mother is unfit is so many different ways it's not even a joke! She went MIA on us for 4 months and didn't make no contact for her son until his 2nd birthday came around and even when we tried to work out a visiting agreement she bailed on her agreed time & on his birthday she got the day off from work but did nothing with him! There are multiple scenarios where she did things unbelievable for a mother to do and then went MIA again since August. Me and my boyfriend did everything legal - we filed for custody, signed all appropriate papers, responded, and filed child support. Now out of nowhere when we are about to have our child she wants to have her friends contact us! So convenient for her!! I'm pissed because all she did was back track and confuse my bonus child and pay more focus on the fact that he calls me mom (which was something he did on his own entirely!) All her friends are hitting up my boyfriend now and I'm so fed up. It's not my fault she doesn't have the motherly instinct to do her job or that she would rather party then take care of responsibilities. I'm expecting my child - I thought I was done with her bullshit of coming into our lives! She was sent paperwork about the court decision and her times to visit. I'm just about to blow a lid - not today egg donor! Not today!!!!! *** END RANT ***