so this may be a Lil juvenile but please just let me vent but feel free to chime in i got pregnant…
so this may be a Lil juvenile but please just let me vent but feel free to chime in
i got pregnant with my 2nd child my daughter last year and at the time was living with my mom
she was not too happy about my pregnancy and said get an abortion or get out cuz she already helped me with my son.
well i did what i needed to do saved and moved into my own place and furnished it all on my own i b left my mom's with literally 4 suitcases
well my older sister just had her 2nd child 9 months after her first and my mom has done everything for her chauffeurs her everywhere because she doesn't have a license baby sits all the time but never allows my kids to stay for more than a day every so often and just recently bought her a washerc and dryer because section 8 didn't give her a place with one
it just really bothers me
i worked my butt off to provide for both my kids all while in school working and pregnant and it's like shes getting everything handed to her
she didn't even have a job or ged or anything but has these 2 kids under one yr old and is getting a hand out
it just really bugs me
Kirsten·
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wow. just wow.
I'm sorry :(
Tahtahme·
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😕 very wrong but how it is sometimes. when you aren't the favorite, you can see a lot more clearly! I always could....
missing326user·
Мама двоих (3 года, 6 лет)
wow that's just sad & pathetic just why show favoritism
Domenique·
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)
i mean i get it i can provide for my kids and I'm proud of that but when i get the tough love grow up and do what u gotta do, on the flip side my sister whom is older than me had 2 kids in 1 yr and it's sort of like shes getting praises for it @mommy2be15 maybe I'm being dramatic but i don't think its right
i don't ask for anything but the fact that it is never offered bothers me
its not me or my husbands fault that she had 2 kids with a guy in and out of jail and his family wants nothing to do with your kids
grow up you had them take care of them like everyone else
missing329user·
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That's so messed up. You're doing great, mama. Keep your head up.
Kirsten·
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Well.. good for you! It sounds like you're doing great and really did wonderfully for you and your kids. sad that your mother is so unfair but you will have a much better life than your sister working for it.
Marquetta·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (24 нед.)
so wrong keep your head up everything will be good
Domenique·
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)
i mean it's crazy tho my mom has 3 girls the oldest lives in sc is married has twin boys and a 3rd due in a few weeks
then theres the sister I'm talking about who had a baby in February and December and then me i had my son 7 yrs ago my daughter last december and due in march
me and my oldest sister were raised by my mom the one who she does for now never has lived with my mom they hated eachother and fought LITERALLY everytime they were together when we were growing up
me and my oldest sister both graduated college got married have our own families
but since she decided to drop out of high school become a felon and have kids back to back you help her and baby her along the way
shes a mother
what is she gonna teach her girls if shes not even doing anything for herself
Domenique·
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)
I'm glad i don't just sound petty and childish
thanks ladies
Emma Havlish·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (14 нед.)
that's kinda how my dad was with my sister, she got pregnant (at 16) and he wasn't happy at first. Well my sister married her baby daddy (only because of the baby) and my dad helped pay for the wedding, bought all new stuff for my niece, bought her a washer and dryer, paid for her honeymoon and all that and when I told him that I was pregnant (at 20) and he's not happy at all, and I said "hey do you or Kim (my step mom) plan on doing a baby shower?" (I asked just to make sure the dates in which my mom was throwing me one and my boyfriend's aunt was too so they didn't clash) and he's like "why would we throw you one?" I felt hurt because he did everything for my sister and none of his family wants to come to the one my mom planned and theyre not going to even throw a little party it's hurtful honestly
Katelyn·
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It'll make you a stronger woman. It might be because she's the baby? Although I would never agree with her saying getting an abortion, I don't agree with the other moms, sorry. Only because maybe your mom knows you're a stronger person to do it on your own. Tough love. You don't feel accomplished? Because it's absolutely wonderful that you managed to do all of that on your own plus school! You should be very proud of yourself.
Domenique·
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)
I'm the baby @answeredprayer16 lol shes older