so my SO and I both agreed to not include my baby daddy after he decided to leave me on the street…
so my SO and I both agreed to not include my baby daddy after he decided to leave me on the street at 8 months pregnant. I called him when I gave birth and he didn't even want to meet my daughter when I was born. now he's texting me talking about a paternity test and how I need to tell him where I live so he can come see her, even though he didn't even want to see her 2 weeks ago. he doesnt even know that I'm living with my SO right now. anyone have some advice on how I should handle this? I don't want to deny him the right of being a father (even thought in the state of texas my husband is considered her father by law) but I also don't want my daughter to be around such a heartless man.
help me!!
Angel·
Мама четверых детей
if he is going to make your daughters life worse then definitely do not let him in it. cancerous people are only good at destroying a good thing. I wouldn't do it.
Breanna·
В ожидании первенца
i wouldn't let him around her. if he's going to be mean and crap and treat you like that your daughter doesn't need to see or grow up with that
Cherokee·
Мама дочки-младенца
I'm in sort of the same situation. My daughters dad is a pos except I left him and he stalks me so there's a protective order in place, and I'm still single. But I think if he really wants to make an effort then he'll go to court to see her. If not then he doesn't care that much. And who's to say he'll stay in her life? I'd rather have to explain why her dad never came around then why he came for a while then left. Good luck with your decision :) you can message me if you want to talk about it
Izzy🦄·
Мама дочки-младенца
consult with a lawyer!