Am I being overly sensitive? I still can't seem to get over fiancé calling me abusive yesterday…
Am I being overly sensitive?
I still can't seem to get over fiancé calling me abusive yesterday because I asked him why he waited so long to feed our dog? His response is "Ren is spoiled anyway and can wait until we get back from Walmart to eat." I know I've been quite naggy since I've been pregnant but they are all over relevant things. He seldomly cleaned at our house in Cali without me having to hound him and we just moved to NC and he's inconsistent with cleaning and feeding the dog. I get that Ren is primarily my dog.. but I have quite a few medical issues on top of pregnancy that really makes walking painful let alone bending over to leash up and feed a teacup Chihuahua. I'm feeling pretty alone in this right now and I'm worried (albeit grateful for his job) that he will continue work when baby comes and not help out with ANYTHING else. 😩 It is very frustrating going from being completely self-reliant to having to rely on him for so much. Perhaps I'm asking for too much? I could really use some advice from moms in similar situations.
Samone·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (26 нед.)
you are not asking for to much. I have the same issue with my husband he thinks since he has the job and I stay home that I have to do all the chores but I makes me really tired and I've been cursed with frequent uti's so some of the time I'm in pain trying to do all this stuff
Cyn·
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@thestarsinorlove, thank you. I'm sorry we're going through this! Something has to give. I have frequent yeast infections on top of all of this pain and lack of sleep and he seriously wonders why I'm irritable. I am SO patient with this man child it's ridiculous. My sisters name is Simone btw. 🙂
Samone·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (26 нед.)
I'm trying to be patient with this man but it seems like being pregnant is really getting to him because he's so stressed out. And probably sleep deprivation since his job is working him like a dog. he's so irritable its like he's the pregnant one. And omg that's so cool
Samone·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (26 нед.)
😂your dog is so cute!
Cyn·
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@thestarsinorlove yeah I hear you. It's a lot on them too. I sometimes wish I could be the one working though and I don't think I'd complain coming home to a clean house and cooked meals. But I digress. Thank you! :)
Samone·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (26 нед.)
yeah. I wish I had the job too. I just want to take some stress off him