Why Does My Boyfriend Avoid Coming to Bed with Me?
My boyfriend of 3 years will do anything possible so he doesn't have to come to bed with me. He will either stay in his garage all night or even leave til 6am every single night. I wait for him to come to bed and end up falling asleep and waking up by myself. I go outside to get him every time I wake up and he refuses to come in. Hes been to bed with me twice in about a month. He goes to sleep at 6am when Im getting up for the day. I never get any good sleep because I always worry about where he is. Its not okay, or normal. I want a relationship where my partner actually goes to sleep by me. My baby finally sleeps through the night but I'm still up dealing with him.
shan·
do you know what his reason is for avoiding u?
Haley Atkins·
Мама дочки-младенца
I'm so sorry about that. have you told him how you feel about him jot sleeping with you? & his behavior sounds sketchy
alayna22·
Мама дочки-младенца
He says it's because "i bitch to much" when I go out there and ask him to come in. I seriously cant take it anymore and ive started being crazy about it! Its driving me nuts. He blames it on me and all I want is him to come to bed. @prettiladi_shan @airannamommy
Ashley Carl·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
I was going through something similar to this and then I found out he was cheating and doing things while I was asleep.
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@a12j14carl, I was just about to ask that same thing @alayna22 I think every relationship is different and we all handle things in our own way but my opinion it's not normal I can understand a fight and needing some space maybe a night or two but he should want to sleep with u and be around u and leaving and having a gf and baby home all night is not okay
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@alayna22, girl lemme tell u me and my husband have fought but this man always comes home to me after a few hours if he needs space or when I am stubborn he tells me after what 5 mins come back to bed .....he knows better than to have me up all night while he's gone smh let him try some shit like that
Nelly Galvan·
Мама сына-младенца
I went threw the same thing while pregnant... I recommend you to talk to him no yelling no cursing no loud talking just sit and have a talk maybe while having a cup of wine or tea it could be something that can change like my husband was scared he didn't want to argue and stuff like that
Nelly Galvan·
Мама сына-младенца
Don't just jump to the conclusion that he is cheating neavuse I know I did and things got worst but he knows how I am like I have to have full proves inorded to confront him and as i was investigating he would go to his grandperants house and sit outside the house (they live right arpud the corner from our house) to make sure I wouldn't try to leave to look for him or something
alayna22·
Мама дочки-младенца
I dont think hes cheating we live in a small town and I dont know of any women he talks to here. I know he has a an old man friend that he walks to in the middle of the night and now he's got some other friend his age he hangs out with, and I don't like him. He seems shady. Ive tried talking to him, ive tried everything. I have to like bribe and beg him to come to bed. While its going on I just think to myself, I shouldn't have to beg my partner to come to bed. 😞 you are lucky you have such a good guy. @xoabigailsmommyxo I dont suspect hes cheating maybe he just doesnt like me anymore but wants me to stay because I have the baby.. I finally got him to come to bed at 3am last night after asking him several times. I had to stand there until he got up to come in. Guess he had a friend on the way over. Anyway I rarely get him to bed and I feel so much better when he sleeps by me.😒 @mommynelly
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@alayna22, awe girl don't think like that I'm sure he loves and and wants u around see that's crazy who hangs out with someone that late?
why does his new friend seem shady ? no girl u shouldn't have to beg him at all