My fiancé and I have known each other since I was a freshman in high school but have actually been together for 6 years (engaged for 4 yrs). However, the last year and a half we have been going pretty strong. He has an 11 yr old daughter who I have been a major part of her life since she was 4! We have talked marriage, even planned the wedding down to mailing out the invitations and in the end never went through with it. We have a 6 month old son and now have one on the way! We have several friends/family who are really putting the pressure on to make it "official"! The other part of our friends/family believe that this relationship won't work some of our relationship has been rocky. Part of me wants to make it "official" but I also have commitment issues and don't want to do it just because we have a second baby on the way either. Don't know what to do!
*rant over*
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Our situations are alike .. however, what do u mean u have "commitment issues"? do you have interests for other people? And do you love the man you're with now?? Regardless , if you're having doubts then don't rush it just because you're having another baby with him.. When you're ready, you will be 100% sure .. So my advice to you is to just see what happens. . wait until you're ready ..
I have had issues in the past because I still had feeling for an ex ... So there is a trust issue now ... I do love my fiancé I just don't know if we are ready for marriage and I don't want to do it because we are having a baby I want to do it because we want to be married :/ I almost feel like it's too late like we missed our opportunity ...