so today. I get fussed at because the dishes and house aren't cleaned. I just had a baby a week ago,…
so today.
I get fussed at because the dishes and house aren't cleaned. I just had a baby a week ago, of course I'm not immediately cleaning the house.
then, I get fussed at for not telling him that his brother had commented on a post of mine on Facebook. big whoop.
then, I'm so tired, I forgot to put on the bottom of the bottle before I pour my milk into it and I spill my milk all over the counter and he reacts in an annoyed way...
then just now, I ask him if he can grab my charger for me, and he does but tries to plug it in across the room when I have a plug next to me, so I tell him please plug it in over here cause I was reading an article when my phone died, so he gets all huffy and puffy at me for asking him to do so...
not to mention(seriously not mentioning this) he did something earlier that just pissed me the hell off....
I'm tired of him fussing at me "getting me prepared to be on my own with the baby" when he goes back to work Thursday...
& I DONT want to put my one week old daughter in her crib just yet. that's why I got a bassinet. because I want her there until she's at least 3-4 months old... I'm so tired of him being such an asshole to me.
Ciera Bratis·
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Maybe he just needs time to adjust to the change... Don't let anyone make you feel anything less than what you are.. You're a goddess. A miracle worker. You just made a tiny human, grew him/her nice and healthy... AND brought him/her into this world. Rock on.
Tahtahme·
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Well he should be willing to help until Thursday, that's why he took off is it not???
Morgen Brown·
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exactly! @tahtahme
Morgen Brown·
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thank you so much @peaceofheaven121
missing74user·
Tell him to stop being a douche and step up and be a damn man! If he took off then he can certainly lift a finger without bitching at the mother of his newborn child about everything. Tell him to remove the tampon from his vagina and suck it up, welcome to being a parent! Good Lord....sorry, just really pisses me off when a guy acts like its all the womans responsibility! 😠 I thank the Lord my husband won't do that to me.
Morgen Brown·
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exactly!
it pisses me off so much... because I do EVERYTHING, I feed her, I change her, I snuggle her (that's pretty much the only thing he does also) I stay up with her all night and put her to sleep. I stayed up crying Friday night because she wouldn't sleep, while he just layed there rubbing my back telling me its okay and I freak out and tell him its not because she's not sleeping, I haven't slept at all, you're doing nothing BUT sleeping. & he just stays there. I don't mind taking care of her at all, but when its the weekend and he doesn't have to work, I still shouldn't be doing it all by myself... I love him to death, but I'm second guessing this relationship. especially because the night that I had her, he went home to sleep. before that he went to a buddies house down the road to smoke and then went home and left me at the hospital with my mom, and didn't get up until 12, and didn't get to the hospital till 1:30-2:00... I feel like a single mother with a roommate more than a mom with a husband. :( @sarahemccormick