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lexi
lexi
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it is so hard to be with someone who is not emotional. it's literally like being with a brick wall…

it is so hard to be with someone who is not emotional. it's literally like being with a brick wall sometimes I swear.

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mami1212

sonia

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my wife is that way she isn't emotional I'm emotional for the both of us... she's trying but within these 3 years of being together I have learned how to read her body language and the tone of her voice and have gotten her to show emotions a couple of times... it is difficult but you can gwt through it

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lexilulu

lexi

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Yeah he just works all the time he works from home and as soon as he gets up he is on his phone till the minute he goes to bed and yeah I know we need to make money especially now but it's not enough to just have financial support. at this point in time I need emotional support as well. @mami1212

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mami1212

sonia

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very true @lexilulu I totally understand I would suggest you talk to him tell him you understand that he is tired from all the work he does but if he could please just make time to hear you out on what you need to get out emotions wise

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lexilulu

lexi

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I end up crying cause he gets hostile so he says he can't talk to me when I'm all emotional. I'm only emotional because I'm doing all the baby stuff planning everything out which is fine but he won't even listen to my ideas so it just upsets me when he makes it seen I'm the bad person for being needy. @mami1212. it's super complicated at the moment

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lexilulu

lexi

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@mami1212,

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mami1212

sonia

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@lexilulu, is he depressed? have any underline mental health issues? because what you just said seems like there maybe some other isssues

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lexilulu

lexi

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no he literally has to be doing something all the time and that's where work comes in. he gets bored very easily @mami1212

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mami1212

sonia

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hmmmm@lexilulu

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lexilulu

lexi

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Yeah it's extremely frustrating. I'm very open with my feelings and if something is bothering me I will tell him but that means I'm too needy. so oh well. whatever happens is suppose to happen. the k you for letting me cent and giving me advice. means a lot. @mami1212

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mami1212

sonia

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no problem @lexilulu everyone needs to vent sometimes... but I truly do hope that you figure out something because to just throw yourself into work and not hear anyone out isn't normal... that is a sign of depression...

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