really feeling like a failure to my baby girl right now.I grew up without a father and now my child…

You did the right thing and are a strong women you will find the right man who will love you both and show you how a family truly is dont feel like a failure your are a beautiful strong independent women and make me proud to see that there are women like you out there

it's just that I never wanted my child to grow up without a father like I did just cause he is stupid she will suffer from it and I hate that....I never even told him I was pregnant just got a restraining order on him cause he said he was gonna kill me when I left him he had put me n the hospital before and broke 2 ribs my mom says I should tell him I am pregnant wit his child but I don't wanna put my baby in danger bit then again don't wanna keep him away from his child either IDK Wat to do anymore

@mom13,

Do whats best for you and your child.... yes he has a right to know but some people dont change for the better and it can make things worse as for your mother she should have your back but if he did that to you personally i wouldnt put my child in the chance of harms way if he wants visitation rights i would push for supervised visitations every time

that's my thing I live wit my mom now and she wants me to get child support but then he gets rights to her and that scares me knowing Wat he did to me Wat if he gets drunk while he has her and gets mad and hurts her is my thing ik he should know he has a child but then I would have to talk to him and stuff and I don't even want to see him and idk how to go about the restraining order cause I don't wanna break it and I don't want him to hurt me either