RANT: my fiancé has 3 sisters and 2 brothers, and one of his older sisters has taken it upon herself…
RANT: my fiancé has 3 sisters and 2 brothers, and one of his older sisters has taken it upon herself to plan our baby shower. Normally I would think that this is great and welcome the fact that she is trying to help but I cannot stand her. We're unsure to when our little girl will arrive because I am extremely high risk so we are struggling to get everything we need before she gets here. But Patty (fiancés sister) decided that she wants to have the baby shower after I have the baby. She also just texted me and told me that I need to buy a crib for Hallie and sent me screenshots of the ones she likes. I get that she is trying to help, but with me on bedrest we struggle to make rent and buy groceries as it is so if she wants to buy me a crib she can because I definitely don't have the money for one. UGH rant over👌🏻
missy·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
she can't just tell you to buy a crib for your kid,how does she even know your planning on using a crib Jesus she needs a chill pill (no offense )
Shay·
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amen! @missytoyou
Bridget Estabrook·
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@missytoyou, that's what I'm saying!!! She is more than welcome to buy us a crib but between rent, groceries, bills and a car payment we have no extra money! So irritating!!
missing268user·
excise my French but what a bitch-.- that's your baby girl and who is she to plan when your baby shower happens especially if y'all don't like each other don't even get me started about the crib situation she put you in-.-@bridgete
missy·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
I would tell her since she giving demands like she's the mother n if I were you I would ask your husband to say something to her since that's his sister I have to do that with my mother in-law the lady gets sensitive when I say stuff w.e but anyway yea
Bridget Estabrook·
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@callumsmommy, I'm seriously about to tell her what's up. We have absolutely no idea when baby girl will be here because my water broke at 19 weeks so we're playing the waiting game until I hit 34 weeks and ten they'll induce me but it'd be nice to have some clothes or diapers before she gets here!! And with no extra money that's what our baby shower was supposed to be for 😩
missing268user·
I'd ask someone to plan one for you, that's all things you need! idk tell her how it is. just tell her look if you wanna wait until baby girl is born that's fine. but I'm asking someone to throw me one before because she needs diapers and clothes and whatever else anyone wants to bring@bridgete
Bridget Estabrook·
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@callumsmommy, I'll probably end up doing that. She's not even close with my fiancé. Like the last time we saw her was at the family Christmas party and before that we haven't seen her since last year.
missing268user·
I don't even know her and feel like kicking her butt sorry your going through that-.-@bridgete