So I feel kind of bad but this is my third child and I'm considering not having any hospital…

So I feel kind of bad but this is my third child and I'm considering not having any hospital visitors at all and just having the baby to myself, my partner and my kids for those few days. With my first child I was so tired and messed up on medications they gave me I ended up having all these people watch me give birth some who I never even met before no thanks to my daughters idiot father trying to show off. The party didn't stop until I went home. With my son everything was fine (he has a different dad and that's my partner now) agreed it was going to be just him and I but after we had visitors almost immediately and I just really want to spend my quality bonding time with my third without interruptions. I feel bad saying that coz I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but at the same time I never fulfill my own needs trying to please others. Help?!