Yesterday night i swore i felt my baby moved. i was eating and i felt something hard push against my…
Yesterday night i swore i felt my baby moved. i was eating and i felt something hard push against my hand right below my navel and then mild movements after i got so excited i called my boyfriend immediately and he was overwhelmed with joy. i always place my hand there as a habit since i got pregnant i even sleep like that because i know my baby is in there. a while ago i said to my him "no movements tonight" his response was "maybe its dead" I'm so hurt,😭😭😭 I hate him so much!!!!😡😡😡 how could he say that? I'm in tears right now I'm so hurt. yesterday he was one happy guy tonight he's a jerk. i know it's still early for a lot of movements but you don't ever say that shit to a mom about her unborn child! gosh
Sabrina·
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too early to feel a hand. I didn't my daughter's hand until after 20 weeks. your child is too small
Aivilo·
Мама подростка, беременна (16 нед.)
@sbrodeur1995 i didn't say i feel a hand. i was talking about my hand
Sabrina·
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still all I can really feel at 15 weeks is butterflies
lil_bigmama·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (21 нед.)
I don't get mine all the time I'm 16 weeks but ppl can b rude hun uk ur body I'm so glad u got 2 feel movement just wait tell it wakes u up thinking something jumped oh u
Aivilo·
Мама подростка, беременна (16 нед.)
@sbrodeur1995 even if it was actually the baby or not I'm still hurt by his response that's all I'm saying
Aivilo·
Мама подростка, беременна (16 нед.)
@lil_bigmama it is so hurtful i don't think he thought about it before he answered. why would you say that about your own baby and i can't wait to feel all that thank you feeling much better already😊😊
Lindsay·
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I was reading this and the point of the post wasn't whether or not you really felt movement if you felt the baby that early that's awesome for you, you get to feel LO for longer but the point is that is a completely unacceptable response you don't say that about an unborn child you have every right to be hurt that was completely insensitive and really not right it's his child too and you don't say anything about death I'm sorry about that but just know your baby is fine in there also try communicating to him how that comment affected you and you would appreciate if he didn't say anything like that again...hope you feel better sending hugs your way
lil_bigmama·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (21 нед.)
wait tell 20 some weeks when ur begging 4 them 2 stop hitting ur ribs or making u have 2 pee
Aivilo·
Мама подростка, беременна (16 нед.)
@gabesmommy thank you sooo much dear I'm happy someone understands
Aivilo·
Мама подростка, беременна (16 нед.)
@lil_bigmama lol i think I'm gonna enjoy that bittersweet
Lindsay·
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I've had two miscarriages and my friend lost her baby at 8 1/2 months so I don't take kindly to "joking" about infant loss it's a very real very hard thing to experience and I wouldn't wish that on anyone and to know someone even joked about their own child passing freaks me out but honestly men can be unaware of how harsh their words really are so just make sure you communicate how much it upset you because if you don't talk about it and it hurt you that much you're not just going to let it go or get over it you're going to sit there and think how could he say that about our baby so just make sure you guys have a conversation I want it to all work out best for you having you feel better and him understanding how much his words can have an affect
Aivilo·
Мама подростка, беременна (16 нед.)
@gabesmommy i spoke to him he apologized and said he's terrified to lose our baby and it wont happen again and he was only joking but i told him never to joke about something like that again. thanks for the help because i would've just been mad and worried about the whole situation all night and I'm so sorry about your lost
Aivilo·
Мама подростка, беременна (16 нед.)
@bianca_rose this is what happened
Lindsay·
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Thank you everything happens for a reason and I'm glad you guys talked
Bianca·
Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (20 нед.)
Ohhh sorry, I didn't see this post. Glad you talked and worked it out though!
Sabrina·
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I see what your saying. I am truly sorry