So, my boyfriend has the audacity to tell me starting nursing school and getting my career/future…

your posts are making me extremely angry with how selfish him and his mother are being. his mother needs to mind her fucking business and let YOU be the mother to the child YOU pushed out. if she wants to regulate some shit, tell that bi*** to have a kid of her own and gtf off of your back. as far as your bf, he sounds like a spineless ass brat hanging onto every word mommy says. tell his ass when he forms an opinion of his own, then come talk to you. until then don't come relaying that bullshit his mom feels. fuck him and her 😠😠 a baby does NOT mean u can no longer pursue your dreams. fuck that

@mango44, omg.. thank YOU.. seriously needed to hear I wasn't the crazy one. they are trying to make it out like I am the selfish one... 😔 everything I am doing and going to do IS for my daughter and for myself. just because my boyfriend doesn't want to go to school doesn't mean I feel the same way. I plan on graduating and becoming an LVN in two years and then moving on to becoming an RN. It has been a goal of mine even before becoming a mom, and i don't plan on quitting on that goal just because I have a baby now. in fact it motivates me even more seeing her face every day 😩😔😊 anyways .. thank u again

look... this may or may not be the case, but i feel like the only reason an experienced parent will throw shade at a new mother still wanting to accomplish their goals and aspirations is because they decided to give up on their own when they had kids. she's more than likely saying the shit out of jealousy. but that's not your problem. fuck her. u not doing anything to please either one of their asses. they aren't your children. your only concern is that baby girl and being the best example you can possibly be. if he is choosing not to get his ass back in school, tell him don't stand in YOUR way bc he wants to be a lazy piece of shit. mothers ALWAYS make a way. they can either get with the program or find a comfy seat to sit in with those negative ass opinions and watch you work 💅🏽💅🏽💅🏽 there are always haters in the crowd once a baby comes along. i have a homegirl that finished her BA and graduated, walking across the stage with her baby in a carrier only a few months old, and turned around and got back in school for her masters. keep in mind she is a SINGLE mother, working a full time job, and has her child with her ALL the time. don't let ANYBODY tell you you can't make that shit happen bc once you chose to do it, nothing will get in your way ❤️❤️❤️

@mango44, everything you said makes sense! thank you sooo much. you gave me better advice than I hoped. 💕💕

you have your own superpower now 💪🏽💪🏽 you'll make a way hun 😊 i'm glad i could help!