Need to vent! My bf and I have been together for 5 years. we lived together for 3 of those years.…

Need to vent! My bf and I have been together for 5 years. we lived together for 3 of those years. about three months into the pregnancy I moved back in with my mom and dad because I found out his mother was talking about my mother and I behind my back and I just felt like every move I made I was watched like a hawk. well december 11 my little girl was born because of the preeclampsia she was due January 19. well in the hospital he did stay all but the last 2 nights in the hospital with me. He refused to sit with me through the epidural and when talk of a c section came about he had my mother go to the or with me. which is fine and all. he continuously complained of tunnel vision and pain from sleeping in the recliner in my room ( I offered for him to lay with me in the bed he refused) he showed absolutely no excitement no emotion nothing towards our daughter when he finally got to hold her. then when we were finally able to go see her together for the first time he repeatedly asked me if we could go get coffee for the entire time we were down in the nicu starting within the first 20 minutes. when he went back home and to work the following Monday while we were still an hour and a half away at the hospital he never once asked how baby and I were doing. I included him in group convos between his family and I to keep them updated also. I also went a whole day/night of not telling any of them anything and nobody asked what was going on. I was discharged a week before Aubrey and would go up almost everyday ( I had to wait for a ride due to c section) he took me up twice and played games on his phone majority of the visits. she's now home and doing great. he would come up at 9 10 or 11 at night and then leave between 12 am to 2am. my mother asked him not to come up past 830 pm cause we all needed to get on a schedule. when he did come up he would talk to her for a minute then lay her on his lap put a hand on her belly so she didn't go anywhere and stare at the tv for the next hour or so. he continuously asks for sex and bitches about how he hasn't gotten any. first of all I'm still healing and I frankly have no interest in it. right after delivery he commented on what I was eating saying I should be trying to lose the weight not keep it or gain more. he blames the way he picks on me on his dad because that's how his dad always was with his mom. I don't want that and I don't want my daughter growing up thinking it's ok for a man to talk to her like that. well I told him we needed a break from each other and to just focus on our daughter. I don't want to take his daughter from him or make him think I'm pushing him away from her but I feel he's doing that all on his own with how he doesn't interact or anything with her!!