So my sister and brother in law have a six month old. And most of the time someone else has to pick him up when he is…

So my sister and brother in law have a six month old. And most of the time someone else has to pick him up when he is crying. And it's not the teaching him to self soothe. My BIL has a head ache and won't get up even though this little boy is turning red and screaming his head off. And my sister is just playing a video game. I am the one that has to get up and get him.

My BIL sighs really hard and rolls his eyes whenever he has to g et up or does anything that he doesn't want to do.

Why did he even become a freaking foster parent if he wasn't ready to actually step up and take care of a child? This pisses me off so much.

I understand that it takes a village. But shit. That is ridiculous.