Hey all,
I thought I might take a minute to explain my situation. I was living in CO up until the end of October as the head preschool teacher of a great school, had what I thought to be a really put together man in my life, and was two weeks away from getting the certification to buy a home.
That all changed when I got fired from my job for being pregnant, had to start considering moving back to NY where my family lives, and then decided that it was the best option for all. Then, I started having problems with the guy, bc of it. Also, began a civil rights suit due to my job, and moved all the way back to NY.
The guy tried to move here for me and the soon to be baby, and stayed for a month, until he realized this place was not for him, that he couldn't find a job, and he didn't know if he could be a good father to our child. So, he left me at 6 1/2 months pregnant, (about a week ago), to move to be with his family in Wisconsin where he said there was work that he had lined up.
Since then, he has promised me to save up money, change his attitude and become more committed to this situation.
I've been doing most of this pregnancy on my own, and feel really alone and scared to not have the emotional support that I have been yearning for. I know that I have family here, but they have their own lives and can't help me every time I need help carrying things and taking my dog out when I am amazingly exhausted.
Any advice would be so very welcomed. Thanks for letting me rant.