I been trying to include Jaden's Dad into everything and not involve him in anything. He calls Fri…

I been trying to include Jaden's Dad into everything and not involve him in anything. He calls Fri and ask if he could see him Sat after he gets off work. I was fine with it. Saturday comes, he txt when he gets off to ask where I am. Nothing after that. then he calls almost at 11 pm asking where am I and he was going to come over. No call no show. Jaden doesn't know any of this is going on but it hurts me to know he is already flaking out on his son but doing whatever else he wants