me and my fiance have officially hit the we have an infant =no sex stage. anytime we even cuddle he…

get him to sleep how old is he

I won't let it happen but it's definitely difficult to have sex and it's certainly not as often as before

@momma101015, he's 10.5 months he can be sound asleep and wake up crying as soon as I even lay my head on my fiances chest

@x-mom, yeah definitely like I'm still at the stage where I'm not ready to let him go anywhere at night but I'm so tempted to let one if his aunts or uncles baby sit

@gothamsmommy2015 maybe you could get a sitter for a few hours? we did that just to have some time alone

Your gonna have to if he does that so you can still spend time with your man ' I'm lucky for my mom at 1 month I was having to slave him with her every other weekend ! just so I didn't lose my mind and me an d my man could have time

my grandma watches him for like just together time but since we live with her it feels awkward to get her to watch him for more than just "we want to have a conversation without him crying" time. he's honestly a good baby but when it comes to sleeping or letting me and his dad talk or anything he's straight up a handful

jealousy he wants his mommy to him self you just gonna have to put your foot down and do what you gotta do and make him start to learn bed time is to sleep

yeah I'm trying I even co sleep on nights my fiance works he sleeps like a work on our mattress but is a really really light sleeper in the crib. right now we are trying to straighten his schedule back out... its exhausting he went from sleeping perfect to not sleeping to he's up most of the night and sleeps most of the day

Oh my gosh yeah. And my husband is constantly telling me how "frustrated" he is. I'm sorry, but if our son is sleeping soundly, the only thing on my mind is sleep too.

@babybsproudmomma, somtimes its sleep sometimes its all the stuff I couldn't do while he was awake. my fiance is indifferent he's like we have time. .. as to where I'm usually the one trying to instigate things. but my son just will not stay asleep lol

Yeah the last time we tried, our son wouldn't stay asleep and my husband was bummed.