I looked that up but they said tgat can only happen if a step parent wants to adopt

if he don't want to be a part of the kids life tell him to sign over his rights

You can do this! Ignore the gf- she has no reason to be a part of this or to call you. Do file paperwork asap for child support though. Takes awhile to kick in sometimes.

You're little one is so precious and a blessing. If your ex man can't see that than its his loss. Surround yourself with people who love you for who you are and will accept you and your little bundle of joy. The stress and the drama that the gf and your ex are bringing to the table is for someone who has time for that nonsense. You don't have time for it. Though you are hurting emotionally right now do not give in to his foolish tactics. 3 years is long enough. And if I were you... I'd tell him that I don't have time for the foolishness and to keep it moving. Take his butt to court so that he pays for child support. Find out what programs that are out there that you are eligible for as a single parent and be the best Momma to your precious child. You are stronger than you think. ☺️ Take care Lil Momma. 😊

Thank you I took the first step today and blocked his number I just ignore his girlfriend but at like 2:30 am I got like 4 restricted calls I just ignored them it was probably him I'm trying to stay strong I have took him back too many times and been dealing with this for 3 years ugh

you're better off , Ive been doing this a single mom but I've had my parents help . he just now out of the blue because of his new girlfriend wanted to text me saying he misses her and blah blah blah but I didn't answer back it took three months for him to say anything but you're strong mama you'll get through this

Thank you! I'm trying to tell myself I will be ok because I know I will but it hurts I never wanted things to be this way I love her dad so much but am so hurt now 😢 I love this app it helps to be able to talk to people on here because family and friends judge to harsh

You're better off on your own mama.

u dont need a man to raise ur bby be strong is a lot of help out there for single moms just focus on ur bby god bless you