Okay so my husband had 3 kids with someone else before me (obviously). A horrible person who no…
Okay so my husband had 3 kids with someone else before me (obviously). A horrible person who no longer even sees her kids and she's homeless and jobless. But his family takes care of the kids. But because they've already been through this him having kids and shit it's like me getting pregnant and having a baby isn't special. They make me feel like "oh, another one". It's fucking bullshit. Idk how to deal with this shit. It makes me despise my husband for having kids before me. Like my pregnancy isn't special. It's taking everything out of it. It's not fair.
Colleen Bollar·
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Every baby. Every pregnancy. Every family. IS special. (Period) I know it's easier said than done to not let others effect you. But from experience my pregnancy was a complete surprise and my parents were shocked and didn't talk to me for a couple days. I finally told them, "Even tho it wasn't planned and the timing may not be ideal in your opinion that doesn't change the fact that a baby is coming and I hope and pray you can embrace this journey and see how happy and excited I am and be apart of it as one" and now they are my biggest supporters my mom even goes to some of my appts. She's throwing me a shower and she tells me all the time how she has seen how happy this baby has made me and it's a blessing. So try to hang in there. Babies have a way of softening hearts. But every baby and every pregnancy is special. Remember that! ❤️
Lonia·
It's not my fiancé family is like that to I can care less because this baby is what I want this is my family so I can give a shit my family is excited and I'm going to enjoy it with them his family don't count to me there his problem.No one deserves to be treated that way.So I stay my distance!Sad but true.Enjoy you pregnancy and try not to let it get to u😊😊😊
Colleen Bollar·
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Also keep in mind that the reality of the situation may not have set in yet for them.. But still no excuse.
Dena·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
My fiance has 3 kids one of which isn't his. Two baby momma's one is out of state the other two are with their mom (the one isn't his but has been there she has medical issues that are genetic with neither him nor his ex has) So his ex the one with the two is a loser and drops the kids off where ever and picks them up whenever. We had the two for almost a year. It's sad but the kids are so messed up and behind in school and it sucks. But we will see them we won't keep them too much drama and their mom always takes them back. Just them seeing their mom messes all our work up. But my fiance is excited about this baby and so am. Don't let drama ruin things I sure won't
Megan Walsh·
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Thanks everyone :) makes me feel better