So the father of my child told me to get a abortion 😞 I'm 19 weeks along! I don't know what to say,…

tell him to go to hell and when baby is born sign over ur rights and stay out of ur lives

I'd punch him in the balls and tell him to leave and never come bacj

You don't need him and obviously he doesn't value you if he says something like that. Neither you or your baby need him you got this👍🏻

tell him no he isn't the one who is carrying the child and if he doesn't want anything to do with it tell him that's fine I'll just collect child support and you won't see her

if you don't put his name on the birth certificate, he has no rights unless he takes you to court. you claim that the father is unknown. and if he wants to fight it, he has to have a DNA test done and take you to court for it.

mine said the same thing...I laughed at him

I would have said..how about you abort yourself mf!. sorry your going through that girlie..

I went through the same thing with baby daddy. He begged and pleaded every single day to the point of arguing with me to get an abortion. I can remember all the excuses. Even offered me money to get it done. He simply didn't want the responsibility. Every day I cried over it because I did not want to do it and I almost agreed to it because he made me feel like crap about it. But obviously didn't give in. I was going to take responsibility. I told him no and he could get over it. We ended up not talking for awhile until November he realized what an ass he was. We aren't together but at least civil for the time being. I'm the one who is going to raise and love her, all he has to do is pay whether he likes or not. Doesn't even need to know the child. That's on him. Your baby daddy can't do anything about it so I'd tell him to go kick rocks. It's about you and YOUR child. Stay strong momma. I know it's hard but just do what you think is best for you.

@sweetpea_nut, @arijane316 @ftmommieoftwiinz @jlspoores @mommabear3cubs @sweetpea_nut @savannamarie @rskille thank you guys! I'm going to keep the baby! I'm just hurt he said that to me.

Yeah I'm sure it hurts but don't let it bug you too much

@love__yourz__, of course! No woman should have to go through it but in the end it only makes us stronger :) things will be okay! Your baby is lucky to have such a strong momma 💕

we are all here to help each other and make more mommy friends and that's what I'm trying to do @love__yourz__