the cramping I've had for the past few days is getting so old.. the dr. checked everything my cervix…

the cramping I've had for the past few days is getting so old.. the dr. checked everything my cervix is a ridiculous 4 cm long and he just came to the conclusion that I should get a belly band to support my belly since this is my 3rd baby and I'm carrying lower than before but the pain wakes me up at night so I know it's not a support issue. I feel like I'm on a horrible period just missing the bleeding but suffering from annoying menstrual cramps and back pain. they just called today and my urine came back clean as can be....I don't know what to do with myself 😠😠😠😠