having a lot of pain on the bottom of my stomach like I am about start is that normal or should I go to the er
It's very normal. I always felt cramping in the front and my lower back. It was exactly like when I was about to start my period, but it would only last a few seconds whereas period cramps would last a lot longer and be more frequent throughout the day. Hope this helps a tad :)
sounds like round ligament/ growing pains