So I have decided to try something new. I'm 19, and my boyfriend and I have been talking a lot about…

yes....wait till later on in life! I'm not saying that to be rude by any means. Just wouldn't want someone to really get caught up in the moment of thinking about a baby, then regret it later bc you didn't get to do the things u wanted to do in your 20s. to each their own! if you two think you're ready, Google how much it costs to raise a baby just for ONE year. Do the calculations of just diapers alone..that'll rank super pricey! plus wipes, formula, Dr visits unless u have Medicaid, it gets really expensive. although I'm a first time mom @ 27 yrs old, I don't regret getting to do the things I did in my early 20s. having a baby is a forever thing...a forever responsibility. So...before you guys set it in stone, think about it more. :) just my two cents. not meaning to upset u or anything, just some food for thought! 👌☺😊

I'm right there with you. I'll be 18 next week and I'm 6 weeks pregnant. I feel like the baby is gonna help me grow A LOT. Mine was unexpected but I'm very excited. If y'all are planning on having one, do like @camcam216 said and look at all the costs and everything. Most sure that's something you guys can afford and are ready for. Good luck with everything. 💙👶🏼

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yes! good luck!

I agree with @camcam216 and in no way is that meant to be bad. It's one of those "if you know better, you'd do better" things. Your 20's should be filled with fun stuff, not being tied down. Travel, drink legally, enjoy not having responsibility or curfews. Enjoy being selfish by buying things for yourself!!!! I was pregnant at 20, had my first at 21. I love him with all my heart and everything within me, but that doesn't mean I was ready, responsible and mature enough to be a mom at the time of conception. Consider waiting a few years.

I felt ready then and I feel ready now. my husband and i started trying when I was 19 it took us a year and half but we did it. but my husband and i aren't big on parting or drinking or going out at all for that matter. they tell you to wait to get out all the crazy fun party years but I say if you're ready go for it! we were ready. we're a little nervous cause this is our first child but only cause this is all new to us. I hope this helps

Hey girl, as long as you're financially stable, I say go for it. How long have you and your boyfriend been together? Is your relationship a strong one? As long as you can build a family on a strong and healthy foundation, I say go for it! My husband and I are going to be young parents but we got the partying and immaturity out of us early. We'd both prefer to be home together rather than be out with friends. If you and your boyfriend have cleared the air of any negativity that could come to you or your sweet baby, you should be perfectly fine! I hope all is well! I'm from the Jacksonville area so if you want to talk more DM me! I can give you tips from a first time mommy! 😊

We are doing great. Both doing great job wise for our age. We don't party and drink. We stay home all the time. @tmariewein that would be great!! I need someone who understands

@tiffyboo352 sounds good to me girl! Feel free any time!!!