Okay lady's.. I need to vent.. I am ftm to a little boy.. my father witch is my child's grandfather is saying that my son will make his 5 grandchild.. witch nither my brother or my sister have kids .. this will make his first GRANDCHILD.. He has never been there for me or my sister but help raise our older brother.. I've been told that I'm being childish because I'm making a big deal about him being in my son life.. his wife had the nerve to tell me that there where his grandchild and I put her on her place because my son will be his first blood grandchild.. I don't know what to do. it's really making me MAD.. so do you all think I'm being childish becaue I want my father to come when my son is born and I want him to be a father to my a grandfather to my son.. also he can PLAY DAD and GRANDPA to everybody in the brothers kids, but not his own.
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it's driving me nuts because they bought kaylee all kinds of stuff for her baby but left out my child.. I said something and they got mad.. like she feels like her kids are better then me and my sister.. they spend more money on everybody else for Christmas witch he has only gotten me one thing my whole life for Christmas this makes the second thing and I even envites them to my baby shower but they won't respond to my text or call or facebook messages
i went through something similar. my mil's bf has 4 grandkids, and a few married in... but my daughter was her first blood granddaughter. she told everyone it was just her 11th grandchild so it was no big deal. and it really bothered us. Basically I've learned you can't make people be there for your kids. i can't help much, but i can say all you can do is give your baby the best life you can, with or without some people in his life. hang in there hun!
thanks @aaamommyofpinkx3