Start of a rant, sorry in advance. I hate feeling pressured to do things just because other moms…

Start of a rant, sorry in advance. I hate feeling pressured to do things just because other moms are. I can tell when my little one is about to wake up at night so i get a bottle ready feed her while she's asleep and it only takes 20 mins. I was pressured into trying to let her wake up all the way so she could sleep until she was hungry. Turns out i was right to just let her stir a bit and then give her a bottle not only did it go horrible she woke the entire house shrieking and she was up for 2 hours after now she's cranky and can't fall back a sleep. I should have just trusted my instincts an fed her when she stirred rather then let her stimulate herself awake. Just because it works on other babies doesn't mean it works for her. She's already great at self soothing and only stirs if she's hungry. I could have avoided this if I just listened to my mommy instincts instead of listening to everyone tell me what I should do. Sorry end rant.