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keep in mind this gives him rights to the child don't know your situation wanted to make sure you know
@their.bomb.ass.mom, I hear that. I literally have to find out where he's working and call and report it to them each time. it's insane.
I already told them I was taking care of child support, so the hospital didn't do anything further I guess. We had a pretty calm conversation about it, if he wouldn't have agreed like he did we would have went to court though. He was offered a DNA test and things there and he had to provide pay stubs and things to determine the amount. it was like a 30 minute process, but you're right getting them to pay is a whooollleee different story, and they're so shitty about enforcing them to pay, they don't do much about it. @dontberidiculous
@their.bomb.ass.mom, Your experience was way different than mine. They helped me at the hospital with paperwork and served him. He demanded a paternity test so my son and I went in, they swabbed us both. Results came back and they then asked for income info to determine the CS amount and that was all she wrote.
You call your nearest child support office and talk to them about it, usually they'll tell you to call back if it's before the baby is born, but after baby is born they set up an appointment, and send a letter to the father letting him know. They may tell you to bring some things, but I don't really remember, if you have to bring things they'll let you know I'm sure you have to bring an ID or drivers license though. Then you'll have a conference with them and you and the father go into a room and talk to someone that asks you tons of questions.
yea that's true but hell he will have hella back pay @dontberidiculous
well he due in march ain't to much longer. @their.bomb.ass.mom but how do I start it
They helped me at the hospital with my last one. It was easy. Getting him to pay is a different story.
It can be, and I tried to start before my daughter was born, but there is nothing they can do until the baby is born.
what all do I have to do @tlokitabella91 and can I start before he born?
In Utah, child support and parental rights are not connected in any way, shape or form. For example: If he doesn't pay child support, he still has rights. If I withhold my son, he still has to pay.