So my child's father and I were together until he started acting crazy when I was 10 weeks along. We…
So my child's father and I were together until he started acting crazy when I was 10 weeks along. We broke up and when I went back to him at 16 weeks, he had a gf, and she doesn't like kids, so he's not sure how much he wants to be around. I'm trying to maintain a civil relationship with him for our baby. But all of the drama...doesn't seem worth it. He has cheated on his gf with me once, and has continued to keep trying. He says he loves us both but has clearly chosen. As far as him being around for the baby-is unpredictable-how should I handle it?
Alyssa·
Мама сына-младенца
You need to think of your baby first and do you want your baby to be around a part time dad? And he's putting some girl before his own child? I hope you don't believe that he loves you cause no man would leave his pregnant SO no matter what and then cheat on top of that? Nah.. That's not right at all. Are you planning on doing child support charges on him?
Tiara·
Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
I would keep my distance. He is not safe. And neither is she. When I say safe I mean he clearly is threatening you and your pregnancies peace , humbleness , tranquility , and simplicity. Those type of people you weed out of your life immediately until otherwise. Take this time to give him space and yourself space. Hopefully he doesn't put a female before his baby. He should definitely have to prove himself that he wants to be a father without causing chaos and havoc on your babies wellbeing . @izzysmommy1003