❌Hear me out mommys!!!❌ I need help. Me and my man have been together about two years now. We moved…

have you two talk it over of what was going on? have him tell his side of story to you and you tell him how you feel about what's going on. I don't think getting alone is the problem. You two just lost the communication with eachother. Start talking to him of what's going on. Maybe that will help, but I don't know. To me it sound like you two just need communication. Wish you good luck.

@mysongg, that's the thing he won't. He doesn't show emotion except anger. He never wants to talk our problems out. It's always yelling then not talking then sex. I'm the kinda person who wears there feelings. But he just die at want to listen. I've tried that I've tried to tell him exactly that also that communication is such a big part of a relationship. He down at care. He's so stubborn.

It may not be to helpful, but I went through the same thing. Except we've been together since we were 13 and lived together for two years. It's the exact same thing. He recently got laid off for the winter (he works in bridge construction) and he finally stepped up and stared doing things for Charlotte without me asking. And they actually have a relationship now and he understands all the work I do 24/7. They honestly just don't understand. Not really helpful, I know. But I went through it too. I hope it works out for you.

I was in that same situation, I left for 5days and it scared him and he's changed a lot since. Maybe you need to show him that your not playing.

@charlotttesmama6515, my man does construction also. Right now he's cleaning up the butte fire that just happen idk if you heard about it. But he just had 2 weeks off for Christmas and he still didn't help.

@ryliannsmommy, I've asked for a break. He said If I leave I can't come back.

If he loves you he will let you come back. Honestly don't let him know you are stuck with him he will take that and run with it.

@ryliannsmommy, true true. Thanks mama

If he's working 7 days a week then I think it's fair for him to not help. I had to come to that myself with my hubby. As long as he takes time to play with our baby then I'm happy. I ask my MIL to come over and give me a small break when I really reach my breaking point.

@galindo_love, but what about when he has 2 weeks off and still does nothing? Like at all. He jumps to help his buddy cut wood and clean his garage or baby sit his sisters 7 kids but can't change his sons diaper with out an argument? See that's not fair to me. No I don't expect him to come home from work and new boy do anything. But I do expect him to want to at least play with his son. He will come given and play with the dog lol but his son once again is an argument. He's just a butt head 😓 I

See that's not good, if he has time off then he should at least spend time and play with his son. My hubby is pretty scarce during the week, but at least changes a couple of diapers and plays with our baby on his days off.

Has he said where he wants the relationship to go, like marriage wise or anything?

@galindo_love, yeah it's more of a chore to get him involved 😭

@firstbaby_girl, I have a promise ring. But I always bring up marriage he turns it to a joke every time says probably not then laughs. The first ring I had he said he gave it to me so guys wouldn't hit on me. Sometimes he calls me mabye someday wife. 😑 he's never serious about that topic. I'm sorry we have a baby together and I'm not the kind of person to waist time.

this is 100% my life!!!! im going through this exact same thing!

It's so shity @juliagail09

I always tell everyone a baby won't save a relationship. It's either going to help make it stronger or worse. I'm sorry you're going through what you are. It took both of you to make him so it def takes two to raise him as well. if I were you I'd look for a job so you can get a feel of independence and see where things go from there. I hope everything works out 😊