Good morning everyone, Just wanted to post this I honestly feel that know one should come between…

definitely anyone who disagrees is an idiot...your kids come before anything and if someone cant handle them they cant handle me..bye

I'm glad I am not the only one who see it that way but not everyone believe that but that them losing out on important perfects of there child life. @supermom1104

thats kind of horrible...i dont want anyone toxic around my daughter...especially an unhealthy relationship...but i know what you mean, ladies go out and party and lead on like they dont have kids and then just dump their kid off so they can have a life...like hell no my daughter goes where i go

Men do the same thing but I know someone who drinks and smokes weed and have a whole lot of people around there kids and they do it all in front of the kids it sad and this same person mom is apart of it to fit in with her kids and the grand mother thought it was funny when the child got some hennesy I don't think I spelled it right they brag about it to people all the time @supermom1104

i totally understand...my brother in laws think its funny to teach the kids curse words and i dont approve nor encourage it

me either everyone is different @supermom1104

I'm still with the father of our children, we put our relationship first but not in a "kids aren't priority" way but more bc we are a team and raising our kids is a team effort.. HOWEVER if we ever split, which I'd be lying if I said we have never come close, then no dude would ever take priority over my kids bc I would never look to replace how amazing their dad is.. my mom put men before me my whole life.. I know how much it hurts a child.

edit: .. is a team effort; so if one of us if having a bad day, we are usually good about pulling one another to the side and saying "I'm having a rough day today, don't take it persoal.. I just need some space to decompress and then I'll be back to good. love you." then we go about out day making sure the kids are cared for and try to give the other some peace and quiet lol it works to be on te same page

That is good I wish I had that when I was still with my husband. @gypsy.soul2